Suicide to Hopeful – How I learnt to fight – Jazz Thornton

Girls & their things for “bad boys”

What is it with girls and having a thing for liking bad boys? WHY WHY WHY????

Is it that you hope he might become a “good boy” just for you?

Is it that you like living on the edge of uncertainty because he cant keep a good job, he can’t keep out of trouble and he cant keep it in his pants that makes you crave him?

Is it the chance that he might be violent and beat you up?

Is it that the thought of him changes, maybe the uncertainty or the violence turns you on?

I’ve had enough of this girls wanting a “bad boy”, its absolute bullshit. If you as a female wish’s to have a bad boy then don’t let me stop you. But when it all turns to shit and your left heart broken on the side of the road, maybe even knocked up and bruised, don’t expect me to be sympathetic.

I tried to be the “good guy” you could want and respect, but that wasn’t living on the edge enough for you, so now you can stay living on the edge with unstable, in-trouble-with-the-law, unfaithful boyfriends while I carry on in my pursuit of happiness.

I want to be the stable, faithful, loving, gentle, caring guy that you can look at and say that I’m  your boyfriend and I treat you well. I want a women that will do the same, not a girl a women.

I want a women who I will pour all my spare time and energy into loving and that I’ll actually get it returned.

The superstitious argument that you can’t control how you feel about people is bullshit. You can love whatever you set your heart to loving, you can forgive whatever you are willing to forgive, but you cant do it whilst your tied up in trying to make it worth with your “bad boy” that isn’t worth your time.

Take note on how you call him a “boy”, cause obviously he hasn’t reached the intelligence and integrity level where he can be called a man.

Txting

Txting. One of the most common forms of communication now, and probably the most common way you stay in touch with a significant other.

I’ve been thinking today how easy it is to flick a txt to a loved one, and it lets them know ‘hey, I’m thinking about you, your on my mind’, and we can receive txts that make us smile, txt someone into the early hours of the morning some of the sweetest things. And we love that, but what about the down side of txting? Have you ever thought of the possibility txting can screw a relationship over?

Here’s what comes to mind as the downside of txting for me:

• No visual emotion or tone of voice is expressed so things arent always interpreted correctly.
• Auto Correct. We’ve all seen the famous iphone auto correct muckups on facebook
• It’s so easy for the other person to reply without thinking or let someone else reply
• Txting can be annoying but people will reply just because they don’t want to upset you

Apart from the downside there is also upsides…

• You can blame wrong things or sick things on autocorrect or big thumbs
• You can go back and look at what you’ve talked about and smile over it again
• It’s cheap and fast
• It’s an easy way to keep in touch during a busy day.

So is txting beneficial or a curse to relationships? Is txting really as fantastic as we make it out to be?