Tonight’s update is from mobile so please excuse mis-spells, wrong words etc.
I travel allot with my job and to be honest when I’m alone in unfamiliar places I find myself on tinder. What for? I have no idea, the reality of my job is that I arrive somewhere, i eat dinner and then i go to bed, next day, i get up, i do my job and drive home. I’m never actually stopped in any town long enough or ever have enough free time to meet someone I’d meet on Tinder. So what is the point of using tinder if this is the case?
To be honest I don’t know, and in reality what if tinder? To me it’s a speed dating app where you never actually get to the first date. More often than not I find i use tinder when laying in bed before i close my eyes to sleep.
I find myself laying in bed, looking at all the beautiful (and not so beautiful) women on tinder one by one and as i swipe my way through them in my head i say fail when i swipe left and pass as i swipe right.
To me tinder has become eye candy before i go to sleep at night where if i like the way someone looks i swipe right for the remote chance that they might swipe Right soon enough (before i leave for another city) so i can talk to the girl who has achieved the “pass” mark.
In reality tinder is contributing to the modern culture of judging potential suitors solely on looks. There is no longer a ‘this person sounds interesting let’s see if we get along’ visual attraction does play a vital part in successful relationships, however if you are attracted to someone on a much deeper level than visual, on a more social level then visual attraction can be a by-product off that.
So the big question tonight… Is tinder having an effect on how we pick our potential suitors? I say yes, it’s making something that use to happen on a social level into a pass or fail test, where you fail if your not photogenic and you pass if your good with Photoshop.